Monday, 01 February 2010

injured sexuality

it is not that we are scared of pain, its only that deep down we have our own irritational fears.
Hurting and aching is not only physical, we are also wounded and impaired in other ways, but sexually is the hardest damage to mend. For starters, you are dazed and overcome by events of the injury. Deadened and frozen with disbelieve of the events of the injury, at the same time you are able to talk about it like it’s a movie you just watched, and it is the only matter to your heart. We are not wired on how to deal with sexual injury, so the best thing is to do what is best for us, being strong and getting help.
all help coming your way will not all be helpfull, it is up to you to filter all of it and make the most of it to your advantage.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

This just touched me. I think anyone that has been through such an ordeal, and is suffering because of it, can feel comfort and learn to heal knowing that they not alone. And that they can get help. 2T