when i was still young at a tender age of 12.....i always thought life would be much easier at from my mid 20s.and when i was in high school at a ripe age of 19...i always thought school sucks and never stopped fantasising about getting a good job and always saw myself going to and from work, wearing my nice executive suit and looking all classy. what i didn't know is school marks and school work is just what makes my future. at least i managed to complete all of my secondary education and tertiary too. though i studied what i didn't like at tertiary but it gave me a salary later on during the years. i only realised where my passion lied and still is, but i guess i needed proper guidance in career, it was there i just didnt give it much attention thats all. thanks to my Creator i managed to sustain myself and my siblings through the years from a well paying job i landed right after tertiary with my secretarial skills. four years down the lane i lost my job....i still dont know the reason behind but i think i have a clue and am not sharing it, am keeping it to myself sorry.......some other time.... with the little that i was packaged with, i went back home...some thousand kilometers away from the city and started some living. during my working days i would come and go back on holidays and when on leave, so most people didnt know me much and would ask everytime they saw me around. so this time i was the village belle and guys would kill for a chat with me and some would even go much much further .......................up and down the lane.........only to for a halt ahead. getting home was the most exciting experience for my mother and my siblings, being home was not the best of my times because i needed to work and make some living, i needed to take care of my sisters like i always did, so being home meant my mother had to take care of me and them as well, and i never wanted that at my age for that matter. so i made sure nobody lacked a thing and at the same time i was busy with job hunting....how that frustrates! making applications and posting them but no response, going for enterview but no response and all that frustrated me. but i still had something to keep us going and my mom's salary also kept both of us sustained. and then it hit me and right away i went for it and made it for myself and my family. i opened a bar and operated it. it was quite some job that one and an experiment it was..... to be cont...